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Avowtress™CEREMONIES & COACHING
Tell me your idea
Outdoor Southern California wedding ceremony beneath a canopy of greenery, officiated by Priscilla Brehme

SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA · ENGLISH + ESPAÑOL

Unorthodox weddings.
Unmistakably you.

Your kind of love deserves your kind of ceremony. Priscilla Brehme officiates unorthodox weddings and elopements across Southern California—creative, intimate, playful, and deeply personal. Bring the bold idea, the quiet promise, or the delightfully unexpected.

LGBTQ+ couples and people of every background are welcome here. Ceremonies in English, Spanish, or both—so your words feel like home.

Avowtress™ /

An archetype of a woman who declares her truth, embodies her vow, carries her lineage, and stands in her own authority. Sovereign and ceremonial, with devotion held in her body—present, grounded, and calm; fiery and sensual when she chooses.

“She who vows, crowned in feminine sovereignty.”

AVOW /

To speak a truth aloud. To openly declare or claim something—including your identity—without shame. Avow is the act; Avowtress™ is the feminine identity built around it.

Let’s dream up your ceremony

With Priscilla Brehme · English, Spanish & bilingual ceremonies

UNORTHODOX WEDDINGS / ELOPEMENTS / SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA / ENGLISH + ESPAÑOL

WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER

A ceremony with
your fingerprints.

A creative venue. A theme you love. A handful of your favorite people. There is room here for a wedding that follows your imagination—and vows that sound like you.

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Unorthodox weddings

Let your story set the tone. From themed ceremonies to celebrations in creative venues, build a moment around your personalities, the traditions you choose, and personalized vows. Heartfelt can be playful, too.

Tell Priscilla your idea
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Elopements

Small guest list. Big feeling. Your elopement can be quiet, adventurous in spirit, or delightfully unexpected. Share your Southern California location and the promises you want to make; let’s give the intimate moments room to breathe.

Make your elopement yours
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Wedding officiant coaching

Want to become a wedding officiant? Explore virtual coaching with Priscilla on getting started, preparing a ceremony, and finding your voice at the front. Share your goals to discuss the right focus for your sessions.

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Priscilla Brehme, founder of Avowtress™ and Southern California wedding officiant

MEET YOUR OFFICIANT

Priscilla
Brehme.

Priscilla Brehme is the person behind Avowtress™: an officiant for unorthodox weddings and elopements in Southern California. Her invitation is simple: bring your whole selves. Your ceremony can honor where you come from while making room for who you are together.

For bilingual Latinx couples and families, that may mean moving naturally between English and Spanish, honoring family connections, and making space for both cultures. For every couple, it means choosing the words, tone, and traditions that feel right. LGBTQ+ love, multicultural stories, and unconventional beginnings belong here.

Let's get acquainted ↗
Priscilla with a couple and their dog during their wedding ceremony

ROOM FOR WHAT YOU LOVE

A little unexpected.
Completely yours.

Personalized vows, meaningful traditions, a favorite theme, or your people gathered somewhere unexpected: start with what matters to you. To avow is to declare your truth. There is no single way that has to look.

CEREMONY PRICING

Your moment.
A clear starting point.

Customized ceremonies

$650–$900

A wedding or elopement ceremony shaped around your story, tone, and vows.

Rehearsals

$150–$300

Time to walk through the ceremony before the day arrives.

License signing and filing

$75–$150

For couples seeking license signing and filing.

Email Priscilla with your date, location, and ceremony ideas to confirm the services and final quote for your plans.

Let’s talk details

THE NEXT STEP

It starts with
a conversation.

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Share your vision

Choose a service and share your date, location, language, and what you have in mind.

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Explore the fit

Ask about availability, approach, pricing, and the details that matter to you.

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Confirm your next step

Once the details are agreed, confirm your booking directly with Priscilla.

GOOD TO KNOW

Before we
begin.

What makes a wedding “unorthodox”?

It follows your personalities instead of a preset script. Think creative venues, themed ceremonies, personalized vows, or an intimate elopement. Tell Priscilla what you imagine, and discuss how to bring that feeling into your ceremony.

Are LGBTQ+ couples welcome?

Absolutely. LGBTQ+ couples and people from all backgrounds are welcome. Your identities, relationship, and chosen family deserve to be celebrated in words that feel true to you.

Can our ceremony be bilingual?

Yes. Ceremonies are available in English, Spanish, or both. For bilingual Latinx families, multicultural gatherings, and anyone bringing languages together, discuss the balance that helps you and your loved ones feel included.

Where does Priscilla officiate?

Priscilla officiates unorthodox weddings and elopements in Southern California. Share your date and location—including any creative venue you have in mind—to confirm availability and logistics.

Can we include a theme or write our own vows?

Yes—bring your ideas. Personalized vows and themed ceremonies can be part of the conversation. Whether your tone is tender, playful, unconventional, or a little of everything, discuss the details with Priscilla.

What does it cost?

Customized ceremonies: $650–$900. Rehearsals: $150–$300. License signing and filing: $75–$150. Confirm your selected services and final quote directly with Priscilla.

Who is virtual coaching for?

Virtual coaching is for people who want to become wedding officiants. Share your goals with Priscilla to discuss session topics, format, and pricing.

What does Avowtress™ mean?

Avow is the act of declaring your truth. Avowtress™ is the feminine archetype built around that act. The name is an invitation to show up in your own authority; every couple is welcome. Explore the meaning.

YOUR NEXT CHAPTER STARTS HERE

Your wonderfully
unorthodox “I do.”

Tell Priscilla about your Southern California wedding or elopement: the date, the place, the people, and the idea you can’t stop thinking about. English, Spanish, or both—let’s start there. For officiant coaching, share what you hope to learn.